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Postby gentleman2011 » Sunday, 3 July 2011 11:10:30

Hi,

I have never seen an escort before and booked one recently for a 2 hour outcall for £300. I was not sure what to really expect. She turned up and was very nice, looked like her pictures and nothing was out of the ordinary.

We started chatting a bit and then went into the bedroom, she gave me a massage, performed oral on me, I then performed oral on her and we had intercourse, all nice and safe.

We chatted some more and then I suggested trying out another position, asking her if should would prefer doggy or her being on top. This is where things went wrong.

She said it was strange that I wanted more. She practically called me weird at this moment.

She explained that I should have put on drinks and something simple to eat like canapes. Chatted for around 30 minutes, had a 30 minute massage, sex once for 30 minutes and then she would have a shower and go home. Also during our meeting she wanted to smoke and as I'm a non-smoker I asked her if she wouldn't mind going outside. Not sure if this request annoyed her or not.

Is this correct? I was expected to try out at least 2 positions, maybe 3. She explained that this was not how escorts work and I was treating her badly. This made me feel terrible. I consider myself a gentleman and would never mistreat a lady. I did offer to give a massage but she didn't want that as it would mess up her hair.

What should I expect during a 2 hour outcall and what should I have done. I feel really bad about our meeting and not sure I ever want to try this again. I do have a high sex drive and my previous girlfriends have been the same so maybe I not in tune with how escorts work.

Any feedback from clients or escorts welcome.

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Re: New client, feeling bad

Postby Keane » Monday, 4 July 2011 06:55:40

Hi,

It sounds as though you picked an escort that some of us would avoid.

I know it is embarrassing to discuss details before a booking, but it is important to do so if you have something specific in mind. Requirements that seem reasonable to you or me may not be what someone else wants, so what is the norm?

Escorts are entitled to dictate what they will or will not do. Some are more cheeky that others. Expecting to be fed during a short booking (1 or 2 hours) without prior agreement is definitely being cheeky IMO (especially after a 30 min warm-up chat).

In my opinion there is nothing unreasonable about the positive parts of your booking , nor with your expectations (if you had both agreed to them). Smoking? Urgh!! can't stand it!!

Nothing you describe is "treating her badly" - it is just not compatible with her way of working. I would avoid her.

I suggest you try again when you have found someone who is happy to share what you would like.

Good luck!

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Re: New client, feeling bad

Postby ChilliPalmer » Monday, 4 July 2011 17:06:09

I agree with Keane - you either picked a wrongun or the communication between you two wasn't that great!

Don't get hung up about it - you certainly didn't do anything "wrong" expecting intimacy for a good part of the 2 hours. It is however only sensible to expect a visiting escort to want to arrive, relax and get to know you a bit before getting down to it and also you should expect the date to finish in enough time for her to get dressed/showered and be able to leave on time.

Don't be afraid to spell out what you want - most WG's will be happy that everything is out in the open and both of you are on the same page about what the date will comprise.

The thought of having to conjure up some canapés terrifies me!!

Don't give up yet - do your research - read the girls websites and spell out what you want politely in advance.

You are not describing a typical experience so try again.

Good luck!!
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Re: New client, feeling bad

Postby Mr-Heckles » Monday, 4 July 2011 18:28:55

As in most walks of life there are people who will always try and get away with doing the bare minimum [ie: lazy buggers], escorts are no different. This could easily be corrected if monies changed hands at the end of the booking. lol.

I'd be interested to know if the escort was working for an agency and if you read any reputable reports about her standard of work/attitude etc [she sounds like an agency girl to me, but i could be wrong]. Having said that, glowing recommendations are no guarantee of good service, as i know only too well from this website. :wink:

Just chalk it and remember the "P.P.P.P.P.P.P.P." motto!
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Re: New client, feeling bad

Postby gentleman2011 » Saturday, 9 July 2011 12:34:53

Thanks for the replies,

Just for the record she was an independent escort I found advertised on the web. She had a very professional site and looked like a professional.

However I think she was just too young (early 20's). I think I will try the more mature ones as they are likely to be nicer and have less attitude.

Also I'll may look for the ones that are part time and just do this as an extra job rather than those who do incalls all day long and then outcalls in the evenings.
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Re: New client, feeling bad

Postby sexyasianescorts » Tuesday, 11 October 2011 22:13:30

I could understand a little if this was a 30mins incall but 2 hours is plenty of time for you both have fun together.

It sounds like she was a vanilla services Escort just wanted to do the bare minimum and did not really enjoy what she did.

From your posting you sound like a really nice and fair person whose expectations were more than acceptable. Its a shame you have had such a bad experience early on.

I only hope it does not put you off either using Indie girls or Agencies in the future

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Re: New client, feeling bad

Postby Indian-Delight » Friday, 14 October 2011 06:32:45

sexyasianescorts wrote:I could understand a little if this was a 30mins incall but 2 hours is plenty of time for you both have fun together.

It sounds like she was a vanilla services Escort just wanted to do the bare minimum and did not really enjoy what she did.

From your posting you sound like a really nice and fair person whose expectations were more than acceptable. Its a shame you have had such a bad experience early on.

I only hope it does not put you off either using Indie girls or Agencies in the future

Chloe xx


I'm not sure vanilla service has anything to do with this girls bad attitude. Even ladies who offer vanilla services take pride their profession and ensure the gent leaves with a smile on his face

@ Gentleman2011

Did her website indicate she was a 'cum once and you're out of the door' kinda girl? Was she hungry? Did you offer her at least a glass of water?

I'm sorry you had such a disheartening sexperience. Perhaps in the future you can ask whether the chosen lady has any such rules? I know some ladies don't like to be asked the 'how many times am I allowed to climax' question [extraball], but I think sometimes it is necessary to avoid such experiences as the one you had.

Hopefully your next chosen lady will reinstate your confidence in us.
Good luck

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