re bareback

[AnikaMae]

Nah, my post before was going that way too, but I also had a serious reply to Paul's post on the first page, and didn't do that until later.

I still haven't slept since my mid-coursework restoreative nap yesterday afternoon, so pardon me if I make less sense then ususal.

[newgolddream]

Here’s a tale....bareback....long time ago

I think it takes guts for any guy to admit that has had bareback, with it being a very touchy subject

When I was just about 22, went to sauna, picked girl, similar to my age, and went to cabin, usual stuff: Massage, oral, sex.

I became a regular client of hers, and as time went on sex became better, as time went on. I would now see her for the next 6 yrs, before she took a break, to bring up her kid. I remade the acquaintance with her 3 yrs later, now aged 32 we began where we left off. Now this is where the tale begins, by accident, both of us in passionate kissing before we knew we were having unprotected sex, at the time she was on the pill, since we knew each other she trusted me, and told me to come in side her. I trusted her to be free of decease as she has kids and family.

Now taking it from here we discussed what had happened, and the possible dangers, from this we decided to get tested once a month, together, and when we get results we would book hotel. This was probably the best sex I had ever had at the time, as years past we no longer went to clinic, all of this was done on mutual trust of each other, as we knew personal details which you would not normally discuss.

I think now in this time, you can’t do this, girls are more likely now to work for them self’s, are stay short time in area.

As for my health, I have no decease, or sexual, I am clean, don’t go to clinics for test, but in my part-time hobby, I take part in medical research, and this includes full blood testing. And my last visit, June 05 I was clear of all decease.

Would I have unprotected sex now, only if I meet the right girl, and we both got tested, and be commited to relationship

[dollymopp]

im glad u told us, ngd. real honest truth is good, and helpful to others here.
im a bit like that on this forum. deadly honest, and then i think, christ, i might get slated for saying that. i do think, that ive prob been read, and a guy hasnt called me off the back of stuff ive said. well, to me that means, he shouldnt call anyway, we dont have any level of connection. others kill themselves laughing at stuff ive wrote, called, and quote me! we get on famously. thats all i want really.
i like the truth, and skeletons in cupboards. and people not afraid to tell it like it is/was.

[newgolddream]

This bit justs shows, even when you use protection "condoms", it's not totaly safe, you can easily be having sex, when out of blue the condom burst, which mustr be worrying to both parties?

I guess now the condoms will be better produced, and should be quite sturdy, and robust.

[dollymopp]

ive only had a burster in a bf thing. MATES. 3 times. i call them WORST ENEMIES haha. been told me about passantes, ive got them now, large and trim, durex, and my faves, avanti.
when i started as wg, i used ht specials from germany. marigold glove....!

[AnikaMae]

I've had two bursters. I can't actually remember the circumstances of the second, it was a long session and I noticed one had gone when he pulled out (without coming, fortunately). The first was one of the few times I let a punter apply it, though. Don't let them! Boys are crap!

(Well alright, not all of you, but I'm amazed at how many men have done a quick stretch & snap to get it on and thought I'd let them put that inside me.)

[dollymopp]

we know there are some ok people on aw, but blame the bad uns there for the bad reps here! it only gets bad reps because of the idiots THERE. they do it to themselves, the bad reps.
i know the pull n stretch thing anika, i make sure theres an air free resevoir, if he fiddles with it. im super checking it! if it aint right, its off and another goes on. only happened 2ice tho.
tiff, bin him. even with protection. hes dicing with his own life, he doesnt care about urs. thats frightening. that girl has no care for her own life. and guys go for it? why? oh it feels better......ok u deserve to f***** die then, if thats ur attitude for today.