You will be nervous, it’s one of the best things about this, but try and see it as excitement, not nerves.
If it’s an incall the chances are you will have been given directions to somewhere near her apartment, with instructions to call for the flat number etc when you arrive. Don’t call too early! If your appointment is two o’clock don’t call before five to. Make sure you understand the instructions for the entry phone or whatever and then go for it.
If it’s an outcall to a hotel, the lady will normally need your hotel room number once you have checked in. She may call you at the hotel room phone through the hotel reception to make sure you are in your room before confirming your appointment/visiting you. Ladies will usually go straight to your room. And it’s always useful to provide the lady with information about how to get to your room (where the elevator is, if you need a key to operate the elevator etc.)
If it’s an outcall to your residence, the lady will do checks/screening on your full name and address and landline phone number to ensure her safety.
Wherever the location is, once you met the lady, and are happy that she is the one you intended to see, hand her the money in the regulation white envelope (unsealed). It is considered rude to make her ask for it.
Be polite like a true gentleman. Relax in her company. Enjoy the conversation, but note that please don’t ask personal questions. If you would like to tell her a bit about yourself, most ladies will listen to you to understand the reason you are there and hence have a service tailored to your need (either you want a soft and sensual girl friend experience, or you want to break your normal ‘routine’ and try something more raunchy/adventurous…)
Many ladies have included journey cost etc. in her fees, so tips/gifts/taxi fares are not compulsory but will be appreciated.